I was assigned to go to cik abang Kacamata's school to take his report book yesterday. The fact that I just arrived home couple of days ago, I was quite clueless of what to ask or say during the meeting actually.
So I asked my parents.
First, I asked my dad.
"What should i ask his teacher?"
Without much reply, he handed me a book titled "Think on you feet'
ooo. SNAP, didn't see that one's coming but I truly appreciate that. Like seriously. Love his style. that deep action-without-word thingy~
Then, I asked my mom the same question.
There you go, she pointed some things for me to ask the teacher. There're about probably 3 to 5 points.
Hah, i should see that one's coming though.. hohoho. mom being a mom, that shows how caring she is. Luv her.
The moral of the story is.
Men teach one to think of ideas. Women help to specify the ideas. And they just... well, complete each other.
Indeed, men too have the ability to specify ideas and women are able to create ideas, but usually, that comes second after a bit of consciousness maybe... hehehe..*run for ur lives.. huahahaha*
At the end of the day. It turned out that Abuya did planned to go along in the first place, without me knowing it, well, at least,not until Abuya told me that he's taking a half day leave . Basically Abuya did all the talking. As for me, I was just observing. Wallahi, it was not just a plain observation.
There, i saw a courage man.
A man who barely gave me any ideas this morning
A man who seemed not to care much compared to mom
was so determined to ask the teacher regarding his son's academic T,T
There, i saw a caring face behind that thick spectacle
There, i observed a dad who wants his son to excel in his life
There, i observed a dad who's truly concerned about his son's works.
Then, again I learned
that, men care much. it's just that they don't show it all the time. but they do care. a lot actually. They had a lot in their minds. They don't talk much, as they think more.
Our Beloved Rasulullah SAW is the best example of course. Just a nice, simple,short, meaningful words coming from the mouth, but there were so much going on, in the prophet's mind. Day and night, never stop thinking of his ummah. Yet, a soothing smile never fade from his face. Allahu Allah. Miss him? Let's sollu 'alannabi. ^-^
"I may look passive and less responsive, but only Allah knows how I spent my days and nights thinking about the works and solutions." - quoted . I know you worked hard throughout the journey. You just don't show. You kept it underground. May Allah bless u my friend. :)
I did read John Gray's, but i read it from a point of mars at that time, because my concern was to 'handle' my mom. kihkihkih. Alhamdulillah, it works.. :)
Guess i need to read it again from a view of venus to really understand mars?????? well, don't think so. Observations work more this time.. hehehe.. malas nak baca la tu =.=' ( tengah buat harta sat, buku adik, Irkam Ma'ani:Bahtera Menuju Syurga - Hilal Asyraf . hehe. NICE. for those who haven't read it, spend some time dear. it seriously worth ur hours.teehee.)
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p/s : PERUBATAN's EPIC is on it's showtime. A pre-departure event specially for the little sisters and brothers who'll be studying in Egypt. Yeap, few GENIIUS members are involved. Rabbuna yusahhil my friends. May the event be a success, gain His blessings and reach the objectives. ( dah start rindu depa la tu :') )
p/s: just realized that there were visitors who appeared to be anonymous but willing to drop a comment. I appreciated it a lot, although it's kinda creepy at first when I was thinking of their identities. Nevertheless, do drop more comments and ideas to share with. :)
(merasakan blog ni sudah mula ada nyawa? cengkerik mula meninggal? tidakkk >.< tarik nafas..tiup tudung.wuh.Allahuakbar~ )
Till then, spread the love, duas for our brothers and sisters around the globe.
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We got one life to love each other
One life, One love
Protecting and be there one another
We're worthless if we keep on fighting
'Cause together we can face the night
If we're ready to love
Outlandish
-Ready to Love-
RAMADHAN KAREEM!
